Hi everybody! Sorry for being MIA there for a little bit. I had a crazy, busy, wonderful weekend, followed by a pretty hectic week so far. This past weekend was one of the best I have had in a long time. It is not too often that a person gets the chance to be surrounded by so many friends and family members all at once...and to be showered in so much love! Let me tell you...it's an incredible feeling. The weekend started out with the MUGA scan for my heart on Friday morning - no big whoop there. I have been through so many other tests by now that this one was a walk in the park. After the test Mike, Jeff and I headed down to the D to partake in the Tiger's Opening Day festivities. We met up with other friends and hung out at an incredibly packed bar before heading over to Comerica Park. Jeff was being so protective- making sure people weren't bumping into me- which I totally appreciated because my port was (and still is) pretty sore. The clouds parted, the sun made an appearance, and the good ole' Tigers came away with a victory. All in all, a great start to the weekend! Great day at the ballpark with the big brother :) Saturday was such a blast, spent with some of my very best friends. I am so incredibly blessed to have the most amazing group of girlfriends from high school. There are ten of us "Beauts" (sorry, but it's a top secret story as to how we got this nickname), and we have been best buddies since either elementary, junior high, or high school. I have always known that the Beauts are such a special and unique group. It dawned on me one day in college, that not many people still kept in touch with those they went to high school with - let alone still considered them their very best friends. My Beauts have been there for me through thick and thin for over half my life and knowing they are in my corner right now brings me so much comfort and happiness! Six of my Beauts (and one baby Beaut, Emma) came over to my house on Saturday to join me in bringing Julie's vision to life for our bedroom makeover! I warned them that I would be photographing this, so none of you are allowed to get mad at me for posting these pics. :) Cutest painters in town! Especially little Emma who was the project manager ♥ We spent the day painting, gabbing, eating, laughing...and best of all, not thinking about cancer! It was the best distraction ever! My fabulous friend and fellow Beaut, Julie designed the most peaceful, restful, serene and stylish bedroom I have ever seen. All of my Beauts chipped in to buy this amazing headboard for Mike & I as a surprise! The room came together perfectly and Mike and I couldn't be more excited and thankful! I wish I could truly capture how gorgeous it is in my images, but you really just need to be in the space, in person, to feel how tranquil and perfect it is. Julie - Mike & I can never thank you enough for creating this special space for us. I cannot believe all the thought and effort you put into it! We are forever grateful and love you so much! To my other Beauts - thank you for the beautiful headboard and for those of you that were able to be here (especially two from Chicago!)- thank you for devoting your Saturday to helping create this spectacular retreat for us! I love you guys so much! A few quick "before" snapshots of the old, not stylish bedroom.... "After" images of our completely PERFECT sanctuary bedroom make-over, designed by the incredible Julie Doman of A2 home+made Isn't it gorgeous! It actually isn't even complete yet. We were waiting for this awesome console table to be delivered from West Elm and it finally arrived today! It will go to the left of the bed (if you are facing the bed) and we will be able to put our new flat screen tv on it (thank you Domans!) in addition to using it as extra storage. As if all of this wasn't enough...Sunday was a truly fantastic day which our friend Gina dubbed a "Love Fest"! We had over 80 people arrive to our home to share their love for Mike and I and our families. It was completely overwhelming but wonderful at the same time! We were showered with so much love, so many hugs, endless amounts of food, and given the most thoughtful and meaningful cards & gifts to help keep our spirits up and positive thoughts flowing throughout this journey. Thank you, thank you, thank you to every single one of you that were able to come and for all of you that were here in spirit because you couldn't make it! Thank you so much to Gina & Nichole for putting this together - it was perfect! Another huge thank you to my wonderful friend Kyle for taking some great images which you can see here: The only time I got my camera out the entire day was to make sure I captured a photo of my momma and I. All of you that know me, know that my mom has always been one of my very best friends. She is the most supportive and loving mom a girl could ask for. Every tear, every worry, every smile, every laugh, every ache and every pain I experience is shared equally with her. What happens to me, happens to her. It is because of her and how she raised me, that I have always faced any obstacle in my life with sheer determination and confidence that I will succeed. Battling this cancer will be no different. Love you lady! As you can see, the weekend was unforgettable! I have tried to ride out this wave of an emotional high for as long as possible, but unfortunately the frustration with the waiting game reared it's ugly head again this week. I found out late on Monday that I have to wait until Friday morning to get the biopsy of my T12 vertebra. The results of this biopsy will be in on Wednesday morning and will finally reveal how much disease we are dealing with. Next Thursday, I am scheduled to meet with my oncologist (Dr. F) and begin chemo - but this plan is tentative depending on my biopsy results. So, until we get the results next Wednesday...we wait. We wait, but we enjoy every day and try to live life as normal as possible until then. The best thing about this so far has been that it truly teaches you how to appreciate each and every moment you are given. Sure, I let myself get upset and deal with my emotions - but I get over it and move on to enjoy the day, snuggle with my pup, and cherish every moment with Mike. So enjoy the rest of your week and make the most of it! Thanks again for your constant love and support! It means the world to us. xoxo, Meg ps. don't forget to support our 3 Day team by clicking here!
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Mom
4/13/2011 11:35:29 pm
I am so proud of you, Sweetheart! You will conquer this and you know you have an army of family and friends right beside you. Keep that beautiful smile shining! I will polish it up for you whenever you need a little buffing!!!
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Niche
4/14/2011 12:26:13 am
Hi meg, been thinking about you all the time! Though there is just nothing like the bond between mama and daughter, all of us Beauts feel like we are going through this with you too and we won't ever stop fighting and doing everything we can to help you get through this journey!
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angela f
4/14/2011 12:39:58 am
Holy crap...this wait is hard on US, I can't imagine how it is for you. But here's a thought. Waiting, as unbearable as it is, forces us to master patience. And true patience, something very few people have, heightens our appreciation and gratitude of our blessings in life. I pray that your blessings at the end of this road, are abundant!!
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Julie
4/14/2011 01:02:22 am
Best client and most rewarding job ever! The construction crew was also fabulous :)
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Meagan
4/14/2011 01:35:30 am
"None of you are allowed to get mad at me for posting these pics!" Gee Meg...who would that comment be directed towards? :) I love the pics...what a great time we had! Thanks for giving us the opportunity to feel like we could help you... Julie is really so talented...
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Julie Payne
4/14/2011 02:10:44 am
Wow! What an amazing weekend! Wish I could have made it to shower you with love in person, but you know I was sending love from C-bus and I will be there to visit asap! I'm thinking and praying for you, oh a couple hundred times a day! I shared your blog with a close group of my girlfriends and everyone wants me to share with you how inspired they are by your positive attitude. They don't even know you and you have helped them (and me) to remember to live every single moment and not take one blessing for granted! Enough of all these thanks to everyone else for their support, we should all be thanking you for your inspiration! I LOVE YOU so much and will be praying extra hard until next Wednesday morning!
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Brinley
4/14/2011 02:41:20 am
Meg,
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Heather <3
4/14/2011 02:45:27 am
Your love fest party was amazing. Alot of amazing friends and family, alot og great food.... idk who made that grape cassarole dish but it was AMAZING!!!! also having the 80 degree weather to top it off. I am glad the day was good for you everyone was prying and hopeing for that and thats what you got! love you Meghan! <3
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Aunt Erin
4/14/2011 03:00:09 am
There's no one like you Megs, No one, you inspire me, you really do. You will never walk a day alone in this battle, you have so many wonderful friends, and family that love you so much. I've always felt that you get back, what you have given out, and my God girl, it seems you have given out an awful lot. I'm so proud of the woman that your are, thank you for having the courage to share yourself so honestly with us. love you so, Aunt Erin
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kelley
4/14/2011 09:04:50 am
thanks for documenting the weekend here, it looks incredible and i'm so sad i couldn't be there in person, but definitely was in spirit. can't wait to see your new digs over easter- it looks beautiful (and so do you). love you megs.
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Sara
4/14/2011 09:15:40 am
I've been anxiously awaiting these pictures and they're more beautiful than I could ever have imagined! What a wonderful job, Julie, Beauts, Gina & Niche! Is it weird that I'd like to be in your room with you? Hehe. And what a wonderful day it looks like Sunday was ~ I can't get over the love you have given to everyone that is now being shared right back with you and Mike. It's such a testament to the woman you are, I get goosebumps just thinking about it. I can't think of two more deserving people of all this love and friendship <3 Thank you for continuing to share your journey with us & praying for next week's results! XOXO
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fut
4/14/2011 10:43:27 am
That show of affection was incredible - a gorgeous bedroom, food enough for a baseball team and love and pink everywhere. It was a wonderful tribute to show you what you mean to your friends and family and will shine on to others. We pray though out every day that all of your trials will be positive and if you fight, it will be the good one.
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Future_Mom-in-law-Diane
4/14/2011 10:45:34 am
Not sure why that last message came from a fut...guess we will see in the FUTURE
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Chelsea
4/14/2011 10:56:03 am
This past weekend was so wonderful and such a blast! It was so great to share Saturday and Sunday with you and Mike, the Beauts and everyone else! Lots of love, luck, and blessings for tomorrow. XOXO ~Chelki
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Aunt Carol
4/14/2011 11:00:41 am
Your pictures are always so fun to look at! Makes me feel like we are right there with you too. Thank you for sharing them with all of us!!
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Gina V.
4/14/2011 11:13:38 am
Yes, the weekend was fab-u-lous! But now is the time to bring out the big guns! Time to come into your power. What ever the challenges may be ahead, you must face it and get ready to fight!The positive energy is flowing and the love is all around you now. Take it all in and let it fill you. You are ready to face it and beat it down! We are all Praying for you and I know that our prayers will be heard. We will be with you tomorrow and everyday, and you know you are not alone~ Love You, XOXOXOXO
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Diane P.
4/14/2011 11:34:13 am
Hi Meg! So sorry I missed Love Fest but know for sure I was sending my love and continue to every day. You look beautiful as ever in all your pics...your smile is full of life, I know it will stay that way as your journey continues.
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Nancy Cole
4/14/2011 11:54:40 am
Meghan...the pictures are so wonderful! Your new bedroom is so peaceful and healing...I love it!! Great designers and workers. We have prayers coming from all over the country...all religions...all faiths...people you don't even know.....all praying for the same result..a healthy Meghan and a speedy recovery. love to you, Mike and your Mom (Jeff and Doug ,too!)
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Dana
4/14/2011 12:56:09 pm
Every day you are one day closer to beating this thing! The room looks gorgeous - what an amazing group of friends. xoxo
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Kelly
4/14/2011 01:15:32 pm
Meghan...I get on your blog often, this is the first time writing anything. Let me I am "ReeRee's" lifetime friend of 40 plus years! It is so true you just don't hear of friendships lasting much after high school. Just by everything that I have read on this blog either by others or yourself I can see that you are an beautiful, amazing and strong young woman who will beat this! You are blessed with so many people who love you! I know in my heart that you are going to kick butt and beat this. By the way that picture of you and your mom I love it!!! I am thinking and praying for your family. Love Kelly
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kara
4/14/2011 01:42:06 pm
Meg, it was so great to spend time with you this weekend!! The love fest was amazing! Opening day was pretty great too (even the port a potty). I can't wait to make many more memories with you-- and we will!! Still praying and thinking of you always!!
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Ree Ree
4/14/2011 02:13:36 pm
my sweets M & M ..
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Katie Ceci
4/14/2011 02:25:55 pm
Meg,
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Ree
4/14/2011 02:58:29 pm
was also thinking few more things..that pic of you and jeffer is perfect..love it.. your mama...priceless....when i see tulips i think of you.. since your wedding shower when you gave everyone tulips. the perfect flower ...like you
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aunt erin
4/14/2011 03:28:57 pm
Hey girl, I'll be thinking of you and Mike tomorrow,
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Diane Daley
4/14/2011 04:10:20 pm
So sorry that there has been more waiting for you. The weekend seemed to be terrific and what was needed for everyone. I really enjoy those photos and especially the ones of you with Jeff and your mom.
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Aunt Bev
4/14/2011 04:12:38 pm
May tomorrow go well for you. As usual, all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Doug
4/14/2011 11:10:16 pm
Thinking of you and Mike today. I pray continually for you and praying today that all goes well with the results of the biopsy.
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Gina V.
4/15/2011 01:24:25 am
We are with you this morning. May all go well! Thinking of you and Mike.Also Jan and Doug. Our love goes out to all!
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extra prayers expedited your way especially today! thinking of you during your biopsy! love you. p.s your NEW room leaves me speechless every single time, it is BREATHTAKING . The Beauts did a fabulous job and I love the photos of them because they are all rockin' different colors as if it were planned.
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Nikki
4/15/2011 04:43:12 am
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Warner
4/15/2011 04:48:07 am
Sitting here at my desk trying to get paperwork done, but all i can think about is your test today and I keeping sending prayers your way. I loved all the pictures and I am so happy that you have so much support and postive feelings coming your way. Like I said I finished my race for you and can not wait to take on those 60 miles for you too! We will be there for you every step of the way!
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Heather W.
4/15/2011 09:08:55 am
It is 4 pm., and I said many prayers today that your test went smoothly. I am sure you will be sore, so rest and take it easy. Your pictures of your new bedroom sanctuary are stunning! Can you send Julie to my house?? :) It is wonderful that you have such amazing friends. It truly is a blessing in this world to have friends that have known everything about you for more than half your life ( I am blessed to have a few of them too!) They will help carry you and lift you up when you need it most through the time ahead!
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Niche
4/15/2011 10:28:43 am
Hi Meg, Been thinking of you so much today and hoping you are feeling better and resting nicely at home! And hope you have a very relaxing, healing weekend!!!
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Gina V.
4/15/2011 01:35:33 pm
I hope you and Mike enjoy your weekend together! Sweet dreams...
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Carolyn Hallgath
4/15/2011 02:17:56 pm
Meghan,
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Marty and Keely
4/15/2011 02:27:44 pm
Meg....we think about you everyday and the pictures of your room and the festivities are great. We are always sending our prayers and positive thoughts your way and we will continue to do so throughout this journey. We will be thinking of you this week and are praying for some good news for you and Mike.
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Sheri
4/15/2011 03:15:35 pm
Hey Meghan...talked to your momma tonight. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Mike as you move into next week. Keep on keeping on.
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Sally
4/15/2011 03:15:45 pm
I have been thinking of you and your Mom all day and I am sure it was not an easy day. Please rest well over the weekend and enjoy your beautiful new bedroom! You have so many amazing friends but don't ever forget that amazing is attracted to amazing! You deserve all your wonderful friendships as it seems to me that you give tons of yourself in return. When I read your blogs I am totally in awe with your outlook on life and your love for your family and friends. You are going to kick butt and I for one can't wait to see it happen!!! BTW I LOVE the picture of you and your Mom. I imported it right into my computer! Rest up over the weekend and get ready to fight the good fight! We are behind you 200%!!!!
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kathleen mccracken
4/15/2011 03:33:27 pm
Hey Meghan, I've been thinking of you and sending up prayers all day. I hope your procedure went okay and you're home laying around in your new bedroom! Waiting sucks. Here's to good news next week! So many people have your back as you wage this battle. Remember that when it seems a little dark. Hugs, Kathleen
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Becca Peters
4/15/2011 03:42:09 pm
M & M,
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Tracy A.
4/15/2011 03:55:31 pm
I had such a good time Sunday at your "Love Fest!" It was amazing to see you & Mike & your Ma - and give you all hugs filled with so much love. I'm sorry that your results and plan-of-attack has been delayed, but hang in there. Since Sunday when your mom gave me the "Meghan Angel" I've kept it with me everyday. But then again, even before the Angel, you've been with so many of us every single day! Hugs, Tracy
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Patty L
4/15/2011 04:57:23 pm
You continue to inspire me...you are simply amazing! I pray for you daily and will again go to the chapel tomorrow to light a candle and say a prayer devoted to your full recovery. Your support system is a true testament to the incredible and loving woman you are. You are an angel! Love you!
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Linda L
4/16/2011 02:03:03 am
Meghan,
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Aunt Erin
4/16/2011 04:26:28 am
Hey Girl, Cleaning my house today, yuk! Hoping all went well yesterday and that you're not in too much discomfort. Love the picture of you and your Mom! The room is beautiful too. xo Aunt Erin
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aunt lori
4/16/2011 05:50:59 pm
love you..thinking of u... my sweet m&m...day and night xoxoxox
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Elizabeth
4/17/2011 01:03:22 am
Hey Meg,
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Sheri
4/17/2011 03:56:12 am
Meghan,
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Usha Ramaprakash
4/17/2011 05:21:31 am
Hi Meghan,
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Deb & Bob Hart
4/17/2011 06:17:44 am
Just wanted to let you know we were thinking of you and hope you are having a good weekend. Good thing your love fest was last weekend with an 80 degree day instead of 40! Keep up the positive thoughts!
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Janine
4/17/2011 07:53:33 am
Thought you could use an Office quote a day while waiting with a ridiculous amount of patience for test results ...
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Diane Daley
4/17/2011 10:21:40 am
Hope that your weekend was glorious. Another week and onward and upward. Your beautiful spirit is empowering to those around you and those far away.
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Barb Byrd
4/17/2011 10:36:22 am
I just want you to know, thoughts of well-being and peace float through my head ALL the time for you Meg. I hope to be sending them when you need them most.
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Aunt Erin
4/17/2011 10:44:34 am
Hey Sweetie, So happy I got to see you and Mike today, your room is beautiful, so cozy too. We got wriggley all hooked up so he's on "Team Malley" and looking good. I'll be thinking of you all week and of course, on wed too. Whatever the case may be, you have what it takes, I know you do!! Keep the faith baby.
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Gina V.
4/17/2011 11:19:41 am
We had our TEAM MEGHAN bandanas on yesterday at the PINK WALK and many others mentioned they will pray for you too! Talk to you soon...
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Jack Benson
4/17/2011 11:27:49 am
Meghan,
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nanc
4/17/2011 11:44:16 am
The picture of you and your mom is beautiful. She has been on my mind almost as much as you have since you began this journey. Hope I get to give her a big hug soon. In the meantime give her a big one for me. Praying that you get quick and POSITIVE results from friday's procedure. xoxoxo
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Sandy Godwin
4/17/2011 02:04:42 pm
Hello Meghan,
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Sue Cline
4/18/2011 12:41:44 am
Dear Meg and Mike,
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Aunt Carol
4/18/2011 03:21:16 am
Morning!....with all this snow I have a tough time saying GOOD morning! But just thinking of your smiling face & the good does sneak through!
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Janine
4/18/2011 12:07:42 pm
MICHAEL: I can't stop myself from kissing her.
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Aunt Bev
4/18/2011 01:12:16 pm
Well, I don't know why Aunt Carol is having snow.....we are having beautiful spring weather in Columbus. The trees and flowers looks like something YOU would get your camera out and take a picture of ...everywhere you look there is pinks, whites, yellow and that new fresh green color. It's amazing! Every time I see a tulips it's another reason to think of you. It HAS to be a good sign for a wonderful week! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Love to all of you!
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ree ree
4/18/2011 02:57:42 pm
herro my sweet pea..catching up on your site ..been couple days..cant believe one week ago it was in the 80's at yo house !! feels like forever ago !! esp driving in a winter warning to your side Of town this morning. dont yike it not one little bit. thinking bout you and your awesome man of yours..xoxoxox luv u
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ree
4/18/2011 03:00:59 pm
hey..see aunt bev see's you in tulips too !! its your flower even if you didn't know it xoxoxox
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Jeanne Kerby
4/18/2011 04:09:39 pm
Dear Meghan, I just finished reading your blog and am amazed at the comfort I found in your words.I have always admired your strength and your loving heart and know that, coupled with the love and support of your family and friends, you will not lose this fight! Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. My love to both you and Mike.
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Don
4/19/2011 01:14:36 am
Just thinking of you and praying that you get good news tomorrow. You are in Cindy's and my thoughts constantly. Your upbeat attitude is a real inspiration!
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Nichole
4/19/2011 01:30:07 am
Hi Meg, Hope you are having a great start to the week! The Shades of Pink walk was great, rain stopped as soon as the opening ceremonies started- shared your story with a few people that recognized your name (from the bandana) and they are all praying for you! At next years walk you'll have a pink "survivor" shirt!
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Vicki Caskey
4/19/2011 03:40:59 am
Hello Meghan,
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Sheri
4/19/2011 08:07:05 am
Hey Meghan...keeping my fingers crossed that tomorrow will bring good news. Either way, you will finally have all the answers you need and can pursue a treatment that will kick this cancer's booty. I'm not only keeping my fingers crossed, but I'm praying for you so hard and hopefully those prayers and the prayers of so many of your family and friends will be answered.
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Doug
4/19/2011 08:49:09 am
I continue to be amazed and inspired by your fantastic attitude and spirit. Praying that all will go well with the diagnosis tomorrow. Love you, Meg.
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Gina V.
4/19/2011 12:11:04 pm
Faith, Love, Hope...
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Willy & Sarah
4/19/2011 01:56:37 pm
Sarah and I just wanted to wish you luck! We are praying for you and Mike. Stay strong and no matter what...you're gonna beat this.
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ree
4/19/2011 02:18:57 pm
thinking bout you . a new day here round the corner..you can look this in the eye and hold your beautiful head up high..you are the winner .. i know your ready to kick butt, just another page in the book i will keep reminding you to write..one day ..
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Patty L
4/19/2011 04:10:30 pm
Saying a very strong and special prayer for good results tomorrow. Love you! XO
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Steph, Mike, Sky, Gabe, Jack
4/19/2011 05:43:15 pm
M&M,
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Kim, Kirk & Sienna
4/19/2011 06:57:46 pm
Meghan & Mike,
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Elizabeth
4/19/2011 11:26:08 pm
Meg,
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Doug couldn't have said it better! "I continue to be amazed and inspired by your fantastic attitude and spirit. "
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Jackie (JW) Lindsay Szymanski's mom
4/20/2011 01:01:38 am
Meghan,
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amanda k
4/20/2011 01:20:51 am
Hi Meghan,
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Janine
4/20/2011 01:59:59 am
Hoping & praying for you today... Some small talk Office style while waiting ...
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Aunt Erin
4/20/2011 02:50:51 am
Hey Sweetie, I don't think I've ever prayed so hard, or so much in my entire life, and we all know I've prayed alot. Even asked for some extra help from Aunt Maureen and Uncle Shawn, hoping they have a little pull up there.
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Dana
4/20/2011 04:06:54 am
Thinking of you today.
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